Dude, we just met. Chill!
I met a guy at a block party in Brooklyn yesterday. I was walking to the subway when three men passed me and one of them stopped to talk to me. He told me his name, and I told him mine. We then started to get to know each other with the basic questions, like What do you do?, How old are you? (I look really young but of age, so this is a usual question for me), Where did you go to school?, etc. He’s telling me I’m beautiful. We kiss. Blah, blah, blah… So far, I’m liking this guy and thinking I could have sex him. Problem is I didn’t tell him I’m a virgin because it hasn’t gotten me anywhere in the past with guys.
Another problem is that he got to eager. He then started asking me about my experience as far as sex goes (duh), what I like to do, what my favorite position is, and so forth. I’m wondering what the hell happened to the easy breezy conversation we were having? Yet I’m completely turned off to him, until he insinuates that I must be a freak (if he only knew). He says I’m probably good at giving head because of how sexy my lips are, I probably like to be on top riding the hell out of his dick, blah, blah, blah. We part ways on the subway so he can hitch a ride with one of his friends home. Before he gets off, he tells me to call him when I get home and we kiss goodnight.
I get home and text him that I arrived safely, and he texts back five or six times about our kiss, about our plans to see each other the next day, about what I’m going to do to him when I see him, and more. And you people say virgins are clingy! All I wanted to do was tell dude. I’m over him already. He’s become overwhelming, and it’s just too much! So, yeah, I’m supposed to see him later today, but I don’t want to anymore. What do I tell him to get out of this? I just started my period?
i was bored and i happened along ur blog..very cool. um, i think this dude was a beastly beast from the get-go..he didnt want to take it slow if he kissed u so quickly. all you can do is stop answering his calls..it’ll take awhile but he’ll get the point eventually.
shamz
July 17, 2008 at 4:58 pm
I say you tell him that you’re mentally unstable right now because you just got out of a bad relationship, and you were jumping the gun with meeting someone new. If he pries about why you’re so mentally unstable, just tell him the collapse of the last relationship was your fault because you’re clingy, and hot head and very jealous and that it ended in a huge fight where you ended up getting a restraining order placed against you. I’ve used this and it worked. Luckily for me though, I didn’t have to go farther than telling dude that I’m mentally unstable. LOL
Starr
July 27, 2008 at 7:44 pm